Tolerating each other is not that hard to do once you understand one another. If people can learn to communicate effectively by letting each other know how they feel and sometimes even why they feel the way they do, then it would be much easier to relate to one another. If you can relate to someone, or at least see where they are coming from, tolerating them isn't a task.
I think the best way to tolerate people is to put yourself in the other person's shoes. I think it makes it a lot easier to understand where someone is coming from. Sometimes it's more difficult when someone has a different view than you and you don't understand why. However, and it's easier said than done, we have to really think about why they feel how they do and be more sensitive. People have much respect for those who make sacrifices and compromises and in the long run it shows, a lot.
Kekadang kita tak sedar kita dah menyakitkan hati seseorang dengan perkataan kita. Oleh itu, kita harus reflek balik apa yang telah kita katakan, dan berfikir sebelum bercakap. its not easy to comfort somebody we had hurt.. :-(